I'm glad to see this blog post from the New York Times, explaining why a study out of Ohio State University (claiming that parents bicker less when the woman takes on a traditional role and does most of the work) isn't necessarily as black and white as it may seem from reading the news articles flying around the web.
Because, really, it would just be WAY too depressing to know that the only two choices are:
1. Share the parenting tasks, but ruin your marriage; or
2. Do everything yourself
Organized Working Mom